Whatdoyouknow, 38

Here I am... I am atheist.Doesn't mean I entirely believe in the big bang,that doesn't make one an atheist.Not believing in higher powers,or gods does.Look it up if you don't believe me.I listen to metal,classical,classic rock,Celtic,Native,and some other things not in the mainstream category.I am shy,and usually very quiet.I do like talking to people, just not on the phone.I've been through a few relationships,and have just recently realized they aren't for me.I do have a child...just so you know.I am not a dirty ---- who will just go out and sleep with the first person I meet.I want to be friends with someone first,and I want to stay friends after...if we do end up sleeping together.I am not full on bi, but am very curious.I have gone as far as kissing, but no more.I am picky about the way a person looks.It is hard to explain,because it's not the same with everyone.I will have to see a good pic to be able to tell you whether or not I would be interested in anything more than a platonic friendship.
I will say I do not do the following:Obese,pot guts,too skinny(on either sex)(like bones sticking out everywhere.I guess I am more picky about men,than women.I wouldn't mind if a woman had a little extra meat,but hate it when men do.Also I am not attracted to Africans.Sorry it's just a fact.With that said ANYONE who is in any way ghetto or ghetto fabulous, please don't waste my time.