Toley, 46

I am a part-time musician. I manage a group home for autistic adults. I have long hair and tattoos, a piercing here or there. I'm chubby but not obese. I like hard rock music or jam band music. I really like most kinds of music, save new country or gospel.
I'm mostly just a regular guy with a steady job, I do what everyone does around here- beaches, camping, summer swimming, bbqs, bars, hiking, movies, concerts.
My ideal mate only has to agree with a me on a few simple topics- atheism obviously- the fact that one can be an upstanding citizen with morals without subscribing to the notion of an omniscient being "out there somewhere". That reality is subjective. That money is not a direct gauge for happiness. That all you need is love.
I feel like I have very wide standards for the variety of people I find attractive- I definitely don't think that say Jessica Simpson or Lindsay Lohan are the definition of beauty. Think Suicide Girls.
I am honest, kind, quiet, contemplative, and prone to adjectives. Also, a huge bonus for me if you play an instrument or sing. You support me (my soul I mean) and I support you, and we choose to be together because we want to, not just because society sees it as the thing to do. I am not codependent, we will be together in our hearts at all times, but not afraid to be apart physically when it is necessary. I'm not jealous and neither are you.
I'm not a head-gamer. I'm honestly seeking out someone who might blow my mind, and feel the same about me.