Rbowlan, 59

Oklahoma Freethinker in Need of a Hostess for the Party of Life I'm an introspective man (prolific writer and avid reader) who believes in staying fit but also enjoys his beer and cigars (which I never smoke in the house, because I'm also OCD). I would like to find a friend who has evolved beyond the empty Victorian societal paradigm (mindlessly getting married, having children, growing obese and incriminating her spouse in later years for all the "sacrifices" she's made for "this marriage" ... all because "it's what everybody else does.")

To put it another way, I consider life too precious to waste by living in the zombie-world of tradition. I mean to have a lot of fun with this brief time I have on Earth, hurting no one else and leaving some wisdom behind for the next generation in the process. I've talked this over with my dogs, Mojo and Lucky, and they agree that it is a sound strategy. I'd like to share it with a human who is of the same mind.