I'm an old soul west coast guy. Long story how I got here but I've been in NJ for 3 years now and have been hard at work on building a life for myself. I'm a hard worker, I've tried my best to make good decisions for myself and have lived quite a life to prove it. I've gotten to travel all over the US, I'm well into a career I enjoy, I like sports, music of many types, videogames, books, movies and shows, all the normal indoor/outdoor crap people talk about in their profiles. I'm driven, entrepreneurial, can be cantankerous and ornery to a fault sometimes but my friends I think would also describe me as generous and good natured. I've always been the guy people could count on and I always will. I'm a gentleman and very polite, usually even when I'm being an ---
I think if there is any one personality trait I like about myself the most, its that I am willing to take risks and put myself out there. It doesnt always work, but sometimes you just got to go for it. In a partner, I'm looking for the special thing. I'm not really (and have never been) interested in casual dates with people I find marginally interesting/attractive, I prefer a monogamous dedicated relationship. I'm old enough to remember how relationships functioned before instant electronic communication and I wish I lived in that time period as an adult sometimes so much. I love personal interaction with people in a face to face setting, particularly when establishing an emotional connection. I really want somebody who likes to debate and laugh and talk and isn't afraid to tell me I'm wrong. Its extremely important to me that whatever I start next romantically be based on good personal chemistry. Of course, physical attraction is important to.
Definitely get back to me if you want to chat and maybe go out for a drink or picnic sometime. Would really like to meet some good friends here at least!
