Heathenwhiskey, 41

looking for a reason to stop looking Lets see... about me... Well I'm a chef and a musician/songwriter. Both could pay my bills by themselves but its nice having 2 incomes from things I love to do. I listen to mostly country and hip hop. Real Hip Hop. I hate that swag n trap crap on the radio. I love to read. I prefer quiet nights at home over nights out. I prefer small dive bars over clubs and a live band over a dj. I Smoke Weed!! A LOT!!! I've tried dating nonstoners but at some point they always think I should quit or cut back... HAHAHA NO! Not gonna happen. I don't drive but I also don't need a taxi driver. You will have to drive if we do stuff together but otherwise I get around just fine on my own. I will never pretend to be anything I'm not for anyone. I am me and that doesn't change based on my audience. I also have zero tolerance for racism. Such a disgusting trait to have... I would prefer to date someone who doesn't smoke cigarettes but not a complete deal breaker... I know the "perfect" woman doesn't exist but it's all about finding flaws you can live with. Because end of the day I'm looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with.

Please have time for a real relationship or don't waste my time. I'm not going to chase you or be strung along or be your once a week boy toy. I won't play games or bullsh*tyou so please show me the same respect.