Videodude, 59

I'm a "nice guy," one who never learned how to play, so I can't be a "player." I try not to take everything too seriously. I try to follow the motto, "Don't sweat the small stuff." And when it all boils down, most of it is small stuff. I consider myself intelligent. I like to make you laugh, sometimes going out of my way in the effort. I love to laugh, and I love funny, clever, intelligent people. Cubs fan. Bears fan. Hobbies are writing, photography, blogging and catching up on all the movies I missed while I was married! I'm not athletically gifted, but I do enjoy cycling and walking, and bowling is my favorite participatory sport. I love words, so I like crossword puzzles and very often write long letters and e-mails and I love deep, meaningful conversation. / / / / I'm looking for a woman who is comfortable in her own skin, someone who is not afraid to laugh at the top of her lungs, not mortally embarrassed to be merely incorrect, who is willing to help me learn rather than to criticize my inability, someone responsible who is generally a happy person who doesn't sweat the small stuff, either.