In the course of my brief tenure on this planet, I've come to believe that our beliefs and opinions are not reflections of reality, rather than reality perceived through our own personal filter. I've moved far beyond trying to change peoples minds, or expecting people to agree with me. I hold my beliefs, opinions, and truths accountable in my own perception, and allow the same for everyone else. As is my right, and theirs.
I'm honest to a fault. If I don't agree or approve of something or someone, it's likely that I'll say so. But I'm extremely nonjudgmental. I will either just not let it affect me, or I will remove myself from the situation. At the end of the day, it is what it is.
I'm intelligent but don't have a stick up my arse. I can be serious, but I also have a sense of humor. The best way I can describe it is eclectic, like most areas of my life and interest. If you can make my laugh, you're pretty cool in my book. I love shenanigans!
I LOVE to play video games! Challenge me to some Guitar Hero/Rock Band and I will love you forever. I love RPGs. Tomb Raider has been a long time favorite but Mario was my first love. Obscure games are the best, but I do love me some mainstream awesomeness like FFXII.
I'm just now sort of pulling myself out of a tail spin. For a while there, I was completely unsure of myself. Kind of like, being in a drunken haze and repeatedly doing a bunch of stupid s---, and one day suddenly sobering up. It was a bit of a reality check.
I'm not really into the whole drama scene, but I think I have this weird genetic thing where drama always seems to find me. I do my best to steer clear and keep myself uninvolved but sometimes it doesn't work that way.
My intentions from here on out will always be to make friends above all else.
All that said, don't take things in this world too seriously. Including me. We're never getting out alive, anyway.
Vahavy, 35
currently offline
All, OR, USA
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About Me
Gender
Female
Orientation
Friendship Only
Height
5'04"
Weight
120 lbs
Hobbies & Interests
comic books, computers, cooking & recipes, cosplay, coupon clipping, fleamarkets, gardening, horseback riding, internet, manga, movies, music, naturism, photography, reading, shopping, target practice, television, travel, video games, weather, wine tasting, writing
Body Type
a few extra pounds
Movies
action, comedy, drama, romantic comedy, sci-fi
Orientation
bisexual, celibate
Eye Color
blue
Hair Color
red
Ethnicity
Native American, Caucasian, Mixed Race
Relationship
committed, off the market, just here for friends
Have Kids
no - definitely want them though
Education Level
some high school
Do you smoke?
cigarettes, daily, socially
Do you drink?
socially
I currently live
in a van down by the river
Socially, I am
better in small groups, flirt, home body, loner, shy at first, but warm up quickly
Political Views
progressive
Food Related
Carnivore, Diet Every Now & Then, Fast Food, Fine Dining, Japanese, Soul Food, Sushi
Personality
coffeeholic, flirt, fun loving, geek, intellectual, introvert, liberal, loner, lover, nerd, thrifty
Individuality
ninja, piercings
Religious Views
Not Religious, but Spiritual
I'm looking for
conversation, friends only, penpal
My Sign
sagittarius : nov. 22-dec. 21
Pets
Dog, Cats
Gender
Female
Music
Alternative Rock, Bluegrass, Celtic, Choir, Classical, Country, Hard Rock, Hardcore, Industrial, Karaoke, Metal, Opera, Punk, Rock, Techno
Hair Style
layered, long hair
Fitness & Sports
aerobics, bowling, cycling, hiking, jogging, pilates, swimming, tai chi, walking, working out, yoga
Health Related
meditation
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Media
Satire / Parody
Online Dating Sites
Webcam Sites
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