Placeboo, 41

I'm a soldier in the military that will be getting out in 2011 and heading back home to northern Seattle. Find it difficult to find a good relationship as religion always gets in the way, and most of my friends are strong christians. Have pretty much christian values, despite the fact religion is bogus. Why do people think only religion can make you moral? Don't like drinking or smoking or drugs. Have a wide taste in music and interests. Very independent and not always very talkative, but enjoy the company of friends and interesting people. Maybe one day I can have an intelligent conversation with someone about something interesting. Mostly serious and thoughtful. Occassionally goofy. Seeking an intelligent woman who is both strong and independent but discovers she can't live without me. Not looking for any particular kind of woman in particular, as long as she is level headed. Someone with an asian background is preferred but not the end of the world. What is race really, anyway? Another religion?