Mcp85, 39

My Name is Matt and I live in the Richmond area

I'm looking for someone willing to talk. Someone who will stimulate me mentally and not just "turn me on" ,I need the Mental stimulation.

She needs to be able to talk and understand what I'm saying. She doesn't ever have to agree but she has to be able to challenge her mind ideas she has and even beliefs.
You can't say "that's just my opinon". Because I question and that's not a good enough reason for me... I want to discuss it... I want to connect at the mental level. I want feelings to be geniune and fully discussed even risking what the other may think or feel. I need that in her and I need her to strongly express and if I don't understand drill it into my skull and I to hers, again we don't have to agree just understand. I want to Spend hours on end just talking and holding

That's what I want. No pointless fear of the other I want words to flow like they do with your best friend.... No more imaginary lines between friends and boyfriends. They need to be the same thing in one person I will not separate it anymore.

Is that a lot to ask?