Justquitsmoking, 67

Zeitgeist I am a widower with 4 boys. I have had little luck in meeting someone in my town to do social thing with. I would like to just do simple things with someone as friends and company. shopping , lunch or just go for a drive. I am not looking to h--k up with someone. I do not even want to call it a date. I would rather just meet women in a way we do not have to put up our best behavior to see if someone likes us. I want to get to know someone and see how we interact together before anyone gets hurt. Basically, no dating, no talk of S-- and have some companionship that might lead to a lasting relationship.